Weep with the Weary, Bless the Broken

“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse them. Rejoice with those who rejoice, weep with those who weep.” Romans 12:14-15

In a world marked by division and distress, Paul’s words in Romans 12 call us to a radical way of living as followers of Christ—one defined by sympathy, compassion, and shared humanity. These verses echo the heart of Jesus, who wept over Jerusalem’s pain (Luke 19:41) and blessed even those who crucified Him (Luke 23:34).

Today, many around us—friends, neighbors, even strangers—are carrying heavy burdens like the fear of uncertainty, the grief of separation from loved ones, or the weight of upheaval caused by immigration enforcement and deportation policies. Families may be divided by borders, living in the shadow of fear, or navigating the pain of broken relationships due to legal consequences. Their struggles are real, and their tears are seen by God.

As Christians, we’re called to step into this suffering with open hearts, to “weep with those who weep” by offering sympathy and compassion without judgment. This doesn’t mean abandoning biblical principles of justice or the role of earthly authorities, which God ordains to maintain order as Romans 13:1-7 teaches. Nor does it require us to align with one political stance over another. Instead, it’s about holding space for compassion alongside truth—rendering to Caesar what is Caesar’s while surrendering fully to God, who claims our whole selves (Luke 20:25; Genesis 1:27).

I’ve lived this balance myself, serving as a police officer—a role ordained by God to curb evil and maintain order in a fallen world, as Romans 13:1-7 describes. In my time on the force, I enforced the law with integrity, arresting individuals for serious crimes like DUI, domestic violence, and drug dealing, which often led to heartbreaking separations, such as children being removed from their parents’ care. Yet, even in those difficult moments, I saw no conflict with my faith, because upholding justice is part of surrendering to God’s design for society.

On my days off, I’d step out of my uniform and into my pastoral calling, visiting those same homes to offer gospel hope, practical care, and a listening ear to families in pain, reminding them of Christ’s redemptive love. One memory stands out vividly. I contributed to the arrest of a man involved in a violent crime, and later, compelled by the Spirit, I visited him in prison. There, amid his despair, we talked about his life, his regrets, and the forgiveness found in Jesus. By God’s grace, he came to faith that day, surrendering his life to Christ right there in a prison visiting room and he is a deacon in our church today. This is a powerful reminder that our earthly roles, when aligned with Scripture, aren’t at odds with the gospel; they become avenues for compassion, transformation, and shining Christ’s light into the darkest places.

This mirrors our calling as believers today. We can advocate for righteousness—whether in upholding laws or protecting the vulnerable—while still aching for the souls of those caught in life’s brokenness. We don’t curse those who differ from us or harbor hate in our hearts, even when we disagree on complex issues like immigration. Instead, we shine the light of Jesus, speaking truth in love (Ephesians 4:15) and praying for healing, peace, and salvation for all.

Today, pause to reflect: Who in your life or community is hurting from the fear or fallout of immigration challenges or other hardships? Reach out with a simple act of kindness—a prayer, a listening conversation, or practical help—without needing to debate policies. If your heart feels stirred by division, ask God to renew your mind (Romans 12:2) so sympathy and compassion flow freely. Remember, our ultimate allegiance is to Christ’s kingdom, where mercy triumphs and hope endures.

Prayer:
Heavenly Father, thank You for the example of Jesus, who blessed amid persecution and wept with the brokenhearted. Help me to live out Romans 12:14-15 today—blessing those who differ from me, rejoicing with the joyful, and weeping with those carrying the weight of fear and separation. Soften my heart to show sympathy and compassion, even as I hold to Your truth. May my care reflect Your love, drawing others to the gospel’s hope and peace. In Jesus’ name, Amen.